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                                  Kenya: 
                                       Girls Together 
                                    By Mokaya Migiro
                                    from SATURDAY MAGAZINE HOME 
                                       
                                    July 5, 2003: We have heard of the growing number of gay men in our midst but very rarely do
                                    we hear people speak about the women yet apparently they are just as many.  
                                      
                                    "Hata hiyo maneno
                                    wanayoongea, hatuwezi kusema kwa lugha yetu" 
                                    - Former President
                                    Daniel arap Moi on gays. 
                                      
                                    That could very easily
                                    sum up the accepted Kenyan attitude towards gays. Kenyans, at least most of them, are straight ugali and sukuma wiki people.
                                    They value their traditions and conform to societal norms. Men are brought up to be real men and women are brought up to be
                                    real women. These two categories of people link up to form a family unit which in turn forms a society. And they live happily
                                    ever after or so goes the gospel according to African tradition society.  [Read More]
                                     
                                 
                                 
                                 
                                     David
                                    Neale battles ignorance and raises consciousness about black gays and lesbians through speaking, writing,
                                    and entrepreneurship. A Brown University graduate, he is the founder and resource manager of Black Lavender Resources.  
                                    Neale's crusade began during his senior year at an all male, Catholic
                                    high school in Maryland. Unwilling to remain silent any longer in the face of regular harassment from those who already perceived
                                    him to be gay, Neale came-out. The harassment intensified, but Neale ? a straight-A, model student ? received
                                    little support from the school's administration for his act of self-empowerment and self-acceptance. When the school's principal
                                    prevented him from publishing an article about his experiences as a gay student in the school newspaper, Neale took matters
                                    into his own hands. With the help of his mother, he made 800 photocopies of the 3-page article and distributed as many as
                                    he could himself before the administration confiscated the articles. Neale?s coming-out story is chronicled in Being
                                    Different: Lambda Youths Speak Out (Franklin Watts, 1995).
                                     
 
                                  
                                 
                                    
                                       
                                          
                                             
  
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                                             | Alicia Banks | 
                                           
                                        
                                     
                                  
                                 
                                    A Eulogy For Sakia Gunn An Eternal Sista Warrior  By: Alicia Banks 
                                      
                                    (I dedicate this column
                                    to young homosexual warriors who are out and proud everywhere. You all are my greatest inspirations. I live for you...AB}
                                     
                                      
                                    It is an undeniable and
                                    historically proven fact that those who are oppressed often become the most cruel oppressors. The United States were founded
                                    by slave masters who wanted to be free from British rule, even as they simultaneously stole, enslaved, dehumanized, and forcibly
                                    ruled captive Africans for centuries. As fellow hostages on plantations, mulattos were often the most rabid overseers and
                                    treacherous house niggers, and often crueler than many white slave masters. In Nazi death camps, Jewish and Polish SS officers
                                    who passed as Germans were far more brutal than their actual German Nazi peers. During America?s
                                    genocide against Native Americans, Native American scouts and African-American Buffalo soldiers legendarily assisted white
                                    men as they robbed and slaughtered red, brown, and black people who looked like them. White gays are usually more blatantly
                                    racist than any of their racist heterosexual peers, especially those who control gay media. Closeted gays and gays who feign
                                    at being "healed heterosexuals" gaybash more rabidly than any homophobic or sexually bigoted heterosexual... 
                                     
 
                                  
                                 
                                    
                                       
                                          
                                             
  
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                                             | Sisters of the Sun -- By Carl Owens | 
                                           
                                        
                                     
                                  
                                 
                                    A Call To Black Lesbian Sisters by Terri Jewell 
                                    Despite
                                    the many Feminist treatises written during the past decade by Black Lesbians concerning issues that keep Sisters separated,
                                    a conscious ?skin condition? still pervades among us.  Though this topic has been discussed fervently in many arenas, treatment has been cursory in that we Black
                                    Lesbians are reluctant to face the nitty-gritty of our personal vulnerability when dealing with this particular issue. 
                                    
 
                                  
                                 
                                    Waiting To Exhale With A Rainbow Twist by Andréna  
                                    You see, I have to fly off this island, Reggae?s rock, Marley?s big yard and Sean Paul?s root cause...just to breathe. Just to breathe in some gay air,
                                    some level lesbian vibes. In Atlanta, DC, Miami, Boston, NYC,
                                    wherever.  Wherever I have friends and no relatives, wherever there is a strong gay and lesbian community that gives
                                    a context of belonging and pride, all wrapped up in the love and politics of a universal rainbow. And of course a place, that
                                    has healthy throngs of fiercely cerebral, hot woman who look like Tweet and Beyonce.
                                     
 
                                  
                                 
                                    
Black, Gay and Out in L.A. By: Kevin Herrera WAVE Community Newspapers Originally posted 7/16/2003
                                     As attitudes slowly
                                    change, many black gay men and lesbian women in Los Angeles find it a little easier to be open about their sexuality, despite
                                    religious issues and an enduring sense of homophobia. LOS ANGELES ? It was a beautiful day ? clear skies,
                                    80 degrees and a soft breeze ? perfect weather for a stroll on the beach. 
                                    
  
 
                                  
                                 
                                    
                                    
 Domali Ayo?s site, rent-a-negro dot com (www.rent-a-negro.com) started something in me.  While viewing her site, I thought about all of the
                                    stupid comments and questions I have heard over the years like ?what do two women do?? or my favorite comment
                                    ?that?s like putting two electrical outlets together, you can?t produce anything from that.?  Huh?  Well, I dare say ?don?t
                                    get me started.?   
 
                                    
                                    Over the years, I too have heard stupid and infantile statements and comments
                                    about my hair, my braids, and my favorite hemorrhaging heart liberals who want to be ?down with me? on everything
                                    from saying ?okay? the way we say it to high fives.  Personally, I
                                    am fine with folks wanting to be ?down with me,? but I am also very careful to make them aware not all Black Folk
                                    think alike.  Though we are in the minority, we do not know each other either.   
 
                                    
 
                                  
                                 Falling For Straight Women
                                  
                                 
                                    
                                       
                                          
                                             
  
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                                             | Sonya Shields | 
                                           
                                        
                                     
                                  
                                 by Sonya Shields Sonya Shields is an African American lesbian, who came out ten years
                                    ago while living in Washington, DC.  Within a few years of her coming out, she took a position with the National Gay
                                    and Lesbian Task Force.  For over six years, she held a senior position within the organization, joined several national
                                    boards, and participated in other community activities. But despite her professional career as an activist working to achieve
                                    social justice for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people, she settled for affairs and relationships with too many
                                    straight women.  This is her story. 
                                    
                                    
 
                                  
                                 
                                 
                                 Zuna Institute's 2003 National Black Lesbian Conference  By: Angela D. Odom I started the year with
                                    such high hopes in anticipation for this year?s National Black Lesbian Conference.  I was going to set up a booth
                                    to promote FemmeNoir and I had plans of doing so much while there.  Christine and I unfortunately missed the last conference. 
                                    
                                    
                                    
 
                                  
                                 My Trip To Nia
                                  
                                 
                                 
Article and Photos By Gayle Fuhr  There was a beautiful alter set up and so, on the first night
                                    when we were asked to say our name and where we were from, I did and I mentioned that I had brought a very big Nia supporter
                                    with me, Christine.  I asked if I could place her urn on the alter for the weekend and leave her there until we were
                                    ready to have a ceremony for her on Sunday. I was asked to bring Christine?s ashes with me the next morning, for the
                                    opening ceremony, and was asked to talk about her.  My first reaction was there were so many women there who knew her
                                    so much longer than I and maybe they should speak. I was told I was entrusted with her and so it would be more appropriate
                                    for me to do so.  
                                    
 
                                  
                                 
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